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Posted by: cludgie ( )
Date: March 19, 2025 09:58PM

Serious question. We're a-movin' to Utah, and I find it embarrassing. But even with all the trouble and expense, divorce would cost much more. So I have only met a couple of you personally, and would like to have a meet-up with any of you who live there in "Zion".

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Posted by: gemini ( )
Date: March 19, 2025 11:14PM

Been in Utah permanently since 1980 when DH was hired at BYU.

Left LDS, Inc formally in 2009 but was out mentally since late 90's

There are lots of folks here not who want nothing to do with mormonism, at least where I live in South Salt Lake County.

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Posted by: Brother Of Jerry ( )
Date: March 20, 2025 01:45AM

We met and had lunch, I believe at Squatters at the 2008 ExMo Conference. I was living in the Midwest at the time, but now am about a 5 minute walk from Squatters. Can do lunch anytime/

Come on in. The water’s fine.

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Posted by: GNPE ( )
Date: March 20, 2025 11:50AM

BoJ- Who is the ‘we’?

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Posted by: Brother Of Jerry ( )
Date: March 21, 2025 12:00AM

Me and cludgie and a few other people at the conference - Cheryl and Jerry and the guy with the two @@ signs in his name, among others, if I remember correctly,

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Posted by: wine country girl ( )
Date: March 17, 2026 03:36PM

ahem.

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Posted by: cludgie ( )
Date: March 26, 2026 12:15AM

WCG!! You back?

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Posted by: Soft Machine ( )
Date: March 26, 2026 03:35AM


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Posted by: Lethbridge Reprobate ( )
Date: March 25, 2025 10:36PM

I'd love to do lunch if I ever cross the border and come down there again.

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: March 25, 2025 10:43PM

Be careful. They might decide you're Venezuelan and ship you to El Salvador.

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Posted by: cludgie ( )
Date: March 12, 2026 12:19AM

That's right! Hey, I'm game to do it again.

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Posted by: Scooby Doo ( )
Date: March 22, 2025 04:14AM

Contrary to some here who are confused and think I live in southern Utah, I have not lived in Utah for almost 40 years.

I have many family that do live there (thus visit there from time to time). I kind of use this site to keep track of the latest comings and going from them parts.

Scooby Doo

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Posted by: Dave the Atheist ( )
Date: March 26, 2025 02:22AM

I escaped !

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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: March 10, 2026 10:24AM

I've now been living in Utah one month.

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Posted by: cludgie ( )
Date: April 04, 2026 01:08PM

Sad. So sad.

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Posted by: GNPE ( )
Date: March 10, 2026 05:03PM

I have a gf who lives close to the U, time will tell if we partner, we've known & been friends for about 25 yrs which is close to my personal record.


Love & loving are the most important sources of happiness IMHO, but everything is Mass superficial & Very transactional in Morland.

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Posted by: dogbloggernli ( )
Date: March 10, 2026 05:55PM

I'm here

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Posted by: PHIL ( )
Date: March 12, 2026 08:46AM

I don't believe in Utah.
You name me just one scientific study in the last 10 years that proves its existence!

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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: March 12, 2026 09:33AM

I guess you aren't a Brighamite. I didn't know to were CoC.

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Posted by: PHIL ( )
Date: March 12, 2026 11:01AM

It all depends on whether you believe in a "spiritual
'Utah or not.

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Posted by: Dave the Atheist ( )
Date: March 14, 2026 05:27PM

Since when do you believe scientific studies ?

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Posted by: bradley ( )
Date: March 14, 2026 08:59PM

"divorce would cost much more"

And you would forfeit the longevity competition.

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Posted by: elderolddog ( )
Date: March 14, 2026 10:45PM

I USED to live in Utah...

I had a good time! If conditions were similar, I could be induced to return.

While attending the Y, I was making about $2.00/hour ($90/week) and paying $75/month for a house in Lakeview. Gas was under 35 cents per gallon, full service, an all-day ski lift pass at Alta was $5, and tithing was only 6%!!

Okay, I lied about the 6%... Very clever of ghawd to name a percentage instead of a fixed amount.



Edited to add the mission decimal point; I still suffer from unmet expectations and delusions of ... well, just delusions.



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 03/15/2026 03:50AM by elderolddog.

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Posted by: [|] ( )
Date: March 15, 2026 02:35AM

>While attending the Y, I was making about $200/hour ($90/week)

So you are telling us you only worked 27 minutes/wk.?

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: March 15, 2026 03:38AM

"The Case of the Missing Decimal Point."

--A Peter Wimsey mystery by Dorothy L. Sayers

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Posted by: GNPE ( )
Date: March 17, 2026 12:23AM

"Living in Utah"


What a concept!!

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Posted by: dagny ( )
Date: March 17, 2026 04:50PM

Think of it like being in Utah but not of Utah.

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Posted by: elderolddog ( )
Date: March 17, 2026 08:37PM

Ouch! Very cringe-worthy comment, Miss D.

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Posted by: dagny ( )
Date: March 17, 2026 08:56PM

Oh, that was just a couplet.

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Posted by: elderolddog ( )
Date: March 17, 2026 09:18PM

If people didn't couplet, there would be no new words!

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: March 17, 2026 09:50PM

If people didn't couplet, there would be no new people!

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: March 26, 2026 03:48AM

Miss D? Didn't Clint Eastwood do a movie with that title?

Something like, "Play Miss D for me"?

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Posted by: GNPE ( )
Date: April 04, 2026 01:14PM

define 'living'

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