https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/taught-protect-virginity-costs-instead-013103085.html

Not Mormon. 7th Day Adventist church school.

Bet a lot sounds familiar to MFMC folks.

Why is it always the girls responsibility to keep the boys pure?

BoydKKK Wrote:
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> Why is it always the girls responsibility to keep
> the boys pure?

Girls have more to lose. They get pregnant.

Thank you for having the sanity to acknowledge biological reality.

I am around Seventh Day Adventists a great deal as they are the 3rd most prominent religion surrounding me. The first two are Baptists of all varieties and the Church of God (Pentecostal). In fact, I am playing a solo show at a SDA owned assisted living facility tomorrow night. The SDAs seem to hold a large percentage of nursing facilities around the country, especially here. I drive through the campus of Southern Adventist University weekly. On the campus is a slice of an old tree with the tree rings prominently displayed. One of the tree rings is marked with 1840 - the year prophesy began.

In my opinion it is a more benign cult than Mormonism or the Watchtower. I would never recommend joining it however. It is still a cult, though it does good works around the world unlike Mormonism. They are growing faster than the Mormons. They have their own recovery sites as well.

I did not watch the video so I cannot comment on it. I just am saddened at the damage many religions do to people.

BoydKKK wrote in part:

"Why is it always the girls responsibility to keep the boys pure?"

Since it was males who came up with the rules, my guess is that they wanted to 1) make sure their wives were pure; and 2) have their girlfriends/wives mount at least some kind of resistance when the young men started having sex with them. And while I agree with Hieronymous User about girls getting the worst of it if they become pregnant (though that is true whether or not they are married), it is also true that with the proper precautions taken (i.e. using scientific-based birth control), women can reduce their chances of becoming pregnant to about 98% against.

? Could it be that (for teens & pre-teens) the male libido is 'stronger' and also perhaps more persistent - consistent?


OTOH, (no evidence from me) females sexual desires seem to be more transitory from month to month;

As a teen I was not aware that some gals desires for sex had peaks & valleys, this should be taught 'especially' for girls/women to help them make healthy choices for either becoming PG or not.

(go ahead, dispute this) Guys are known (true - accurate or not) as 'seed spreaders'. A guy's ego is somewhat associated with his penis size & overall virility:

In addition, there are the elements of non-sexual love & loving, hormones, and 'first loves'.


Plenty of exceptions on all of the above, but trends & patterns do exist.