Posted by:
forestpal
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Date: November 10, 2010 01:59PM
You are an example of why Mormons don't want women to work. Being a nurse puts things into perspective, doesn't it. You are doing something necessary and important with your time, plus you are working toward your future. You are putting your husband first, which will insure a good marriage. He's a lucky man.
Our love and best wishes go out to your husband, as someone who is dedicated to keeping America safe!
With all the GOOD things you are accomplishing, your mother is so petty and silly to focus on something so tiny as her little cult, and some nosey intruder you don't even know. Ridiculous! I'm sorry she doesn't appreciate you.
If your husband isn't LDS, you might want to officially resign. My children and I were harrassed for two years after we became inactive, and when we officially resigned, it stopped. Now we're being shunned, which is crazy-making, but at least they've stopped banging on our door and calling us. If your husband is not LDS, resigning would protect your marriage. The LDS cult is notorious for breaking up marriages. If you have children down the road, resigning would be a preemptive strike to protect them and you from all the fuss about being blessed, baptized, going on a mission, etc, etc.
Read "Assertiveness Training for Women" or "When I Say No I Feel Guilty". There are some great tips in those books on how to say no to pushy people. There are actual scripted dialogs, so you can practice what to say. When I was a TBM, I had to say "no" all the time, because too many people in our ward and stake were always asking me to accompany them on the piano and organ, and I was a single working mother who needed time with my children.
What was really interesting about assertiveness training, was that the books described the very techniques that the Mormons were using on me. The missionaries are trained in these techniques in the MTC. Our Relief Society members all had read these books. Once you know what they're up to, it is easier to combat their manipulative ploys. Knowledge is power.
Just say "NO!"