I've never really cared about getting a girlfriend for awhile now. But now I feel lonely right now. And I hate being in utah with annoying tbm girls everywhere that I don't want.
Funny that I always wanted to be alone when I was a member then felt alone all the time after I left. I can't say I was never interested in finding a girlfriend but it was damn frustrating in Utah County. I've posted on that before.
The only solution for me was to work non-stop. I started working 60+ hours a week. Eventually I met a nevermo woman who didn't care that I had been mormon my whole life. We're together still almost ten years later. There's nothing for it but to keep trying. There are decent people out there somewhere.