Posted by:
MJ
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Date: September 27, 2010 05:33AM
I'm with forestpal.
There is the concept of enabling. It is where well meaning people actually enable destructive behavior by minimizing or eliminating the negative consequences of the destructive behavior.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enabling"A common example of enabling can be observed in the relationship between the alcoholic and a codependent spouse. The spouse believes incorrectly that he or she is helping the alcoholic by calling into work for them, making excuses that prevent others from holding them accountable, and generally cleaning up the mess that occurs in the wake of their impaired judgment. In reality what the spouse is doing is hurting, not helping. Enabling prevents psychological growth in the person being enabled and can contribute to negative symptoms in the enabler."
By feeding missionaries, you are "cleaning up the mess that occurs in the wake of their impaired judgment". The above could also be viewed as shielding the person from the consequences of their actions. If you help shield the Missionaries from the consequences of their actions, you impair their emotional growth.
There are plenty of people in the world with LEGITIMATE need for food. By diverting resources to those that are in need by choice from those in need that have no choice, you are diverting resources from those that legitimately need those resources.