Posted by:
dude_guy
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Date: September 26, 2010 04:13AM
Long story short, I'm a non-mormon, nominally christian male (23 years old) who recently started dating a mormon girl of the same age. We've been going out ~1 month or so, and I am quite fond of her. She lives with her grandmother, sister, and a bunch of people from her uncle's family in a large duplex home. I believe that everyone there is mormon.
The girl in question doesn't smoke, drink (alcohol or caffine), curse (unless she's really pissed off, lol), or engage in sluttiness. She does go out late at night with her friends though, likes wearing short dresses and heels (I'm not complaining about that :D ), and does other things that hardliners would frown upon.
But I digress...
Because of the difference in religion, I do believe that our relationship will eventually come to an impasse. I don't want to bring it up too early and preemptively ruin what could ultimately be a meaningful relationship. On the flip side, I don't want to put it off, not address it...
(and this could happen since we're both "type b" personalities and neither of us is the type to bring up something uncomfortable unless it is direly necessary)
... and have it cause either of us, or her family, undue heartache/stress.
What type of dating /relationship milestone should I look for to bring this up to her?