Posted by:
Rob
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Date: December 02, 2010 12:06PM
I wish I could find the link, but I was reading a post yesterday about dating (on another site) and there was a really insightful summary.
Basically it's all about "value". The nice guys in most cases display low value because they're willing to trip all over themselves to impress a woman...and they end up in the "friend zone". The guys who are confident, content with their life, happy etc...display high value, but this also includes the jerks.
It wasn't until I focused on myself and my own happiness that I met my wife. We were attracted to each other because there was no pressure to be a white knight or my missing half. We were 2 complete individuals who don't "need" each other, but like being together.
I think the best idea to have if you are single is: I am not alone...I am lone. Like lone ranger, lone gunmen a lone wolf.
Ok, I found the link:
http://www.sherdog.net/forums/f48/my-mans-ultimate-guide-successful-dating-698402/Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 12/02/2010 12:13PM by Rob.