If someone controls, 10% of my money, where I go and how I spend my time 10 times per week, why I'm allowed to eat and drink, how I am to dress, even down to the very underwear that I have to wear, generally how to vote, who can attend my wedding ceremony, what books to read and not read, what Internet sites I'm allowed to use, requiring me two years of my life knocking on stranger doors, how to speak and what to speak, dictating my entertainment, recreation, and how I use my spare time, control of all of my sexual life year and how I use it, seems a little controlling to me.cult.......??????