Posted by:
Summer
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Date: January 18, 2011 11:43AM
If you want to maintain loyalty to the church, this is most likely not the board for you. You might try the New Order Mormons.
http://www.newordermormon.org/On the other hand, you can learn a lot here. What you do with the information is up to you. There are board members here who do stay in the church for social and/or familial reasons.
You are leaving a way of thinking and seeing the world that has been very comfortable and familiar to you. Mormonism is a very controlling religion. Some people feel more comfortable when being subject to extreme control. For many years, you have been told what to wear, how to cut your hair, what to drink or not drink, what to believe, how to feel about many things, etc.
Freedom is scary. It means that you have to think for yourself a whole lot more, and maybe make some mistakes in the process of working things out for yourself.
Please don't feel that Mormonism has a lock on spirituality. Members of other denominations and faiths have spiritual experiences as well, as do people who are not members of a faith community. People outside of Mormonism experience happiness, joy, peace, contentment, and lots of other positive emotions. The LDS church would have you believe that you can only experience happiness within its confines. But that is not true at all.