Nobody knows- except another exmo, of course, and then there's me, who ain't no exmo, but a dog with extraordinary understandin' and empathy and all that stuff- how incredibly difficult it is. I mean Mom she had NO idea the morgies were like that, that gettin outta that cult- uh, religion- was like extricatin' yerself from quicksand!
I can't resist.... couldja call it a quicksand cult?
Remember, from here on out, religion is not an issue in a marriage. You can be free to explore any philosophies and lifestyles you want. Just love each other, and be kind, and obey the law.
Maybe your children will be next--especially when they see how much fun you are having on Sundays.