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1 year ago
Tyson Dunn
I've been trying to assimilate what the most recent changes have been to the temple ceremony, but I'm still not clear when or what these were. So, if I'm understanding correctly - and please correct me if I'm misunderstanding: - in 2013, they had a new film directed by Sterling Van Wagenen. - in 2019, they stopped using that film and switched to a PowerPoint? - and now, that version doesn
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1 year ago
Tyson Dunn
The Yoruba language is a Volta-Congo language, unrelated to Swahili or Arabic: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yoruba_language As a non-speaker of Yoruba, I have used Yoruba lexicons to try to parse the meaning given in the article for "atofojowo" of "you can look at it for a whole day". It should be noted first that "you can" should be "o lè", so
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1 year ago
Tyson Dunn
We have urns for members of the family who didn't designate a final place of rest, and we have the European relatives whose urns are in rented niches because their custom is to only rent for the short term. It's unpleasant, but I'm pretty sure that we will be allowing the European relatives remains to be moved to the common urn, after we verify whether that's what happened to the ancestors who
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1 year ago
Tyson Dunn
"Pizza savers" are meant to keep the lid from hitting the toppings and thereby getting stuck to them. To quote Wikipedia: A pizza saver (sometimes referred to as pizza table, pizza stool, pizza bone, pizza chair, pizza lofter, package saver, pizza tripod, pizza nipple or pizza ottoman) is an object used to prevent the top of a food container, such as a pizza box or cake box, from c
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1 year ago
Tyson Dunn
There would be no difference between "His death is equal to the sacrifice." and "His death is equal to sacrifice." Reuters renders Kirill's speech as: "But at the same time, the Church realises that if somebody, driven by a sense of duty and the need to fulfil their oath ... goes to do what their duty calls of them, and if a person dies in the performance of this
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1 year ago
Tyson Dunn
I live in a detached house in a suburban neighborhood. It wasn't delivered here. They will only refund the order to a gift card. I'm glad my husband picked up a few bottles of liquid guaifenesin. Tyson
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1 year ago
Tyson Dunn
At 5:45, I had a ring at my doorbell. Thinking I locked my husband out of our screen door, I went to answer only to discover an asshole from Pest Control from , Utah show up. I told him that first I wasn't interested, and second, that I had COVID. He told me that he never had it and that he thinks he has natural immunity(!). So he's THAT kind of idiot. I told him to get off my property or
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1 year ago
Tyson Dunn
That's a serious question. With regard to the timeline, while I can't be 100% certain of when I acquired it, last Friday evening I was at a crowded largely maskless event; whereas, normally, I stay at home. It was an overconfident move on my part to attend, and I was emboldened by going two weeks before and having nothing happen. Of course, the attendance was considerably greater on Friday, so
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1 year ago
Tyson Dunn
The dent should have signed the care over to a dent while both were alive. Silly of them not to do so. I'm frankly a little surprised that the columbarium hasn't figured this out, but as long as someone pays, they don't care whose name is on the account, it would seem. Tyson
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1 year ago
Tyson Dunn
Some distant relatives' remains over in Europe are in a marked columbarium niche, that is still technically being rented by one of the decedents. We have friends in the country who have been paying the rental fees on the space, but they're old and think we should stop paying for the niche and have the ashes moved to the common columbarium. For obvious reasons of cultural differences, this is a
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1 year ago
Tyson Dunn
11. Thanks.
Throat isn't really sore today. No upper respiratory involvement to speak of. A bit of a cough. Slept pretty well. Am a little worried that I haven't had a fever - I'd expect a bit of a fever if my body is actually fighting the infection.
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1 year ago
Tyson Dunn
I tested positive this morning. I was around too densely packed of a group of people on Friday night, and here we are. Sore throat is getting better, coughing seems a little worse. No fever so far. Tyson
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1 year ago
Tyson Dunn
Taking a cue from Amazon, the church can open LDS Hub(ris) Lockers. Your temple recommend opens a locker that is specific to just you! It has the name of the person you're going through for, a set of Jesus jammies, and a set of one-use codes that are sent to your phone to unlock even more fabulous kingdoms. Before your temple trip, you fill out your temple worthiness form, by uploading last
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1 year ago
Tyson Dunn
Delaware (the state) is named for Delaware (the river) which in turn was named for Thomas West, 3rd Baron De La Warr. The native Americans who were called Delaware Indians by the British for where they lived actually had the autonym Lenape (Lënapeyok). Of the thirteen colonies, only Massachusetts (from Wampanoag "muswachasut") and Connecticut (from Mohegan "quinetucket"
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1 year ago
Tyson Dunn
I will be taking part in an online group meeting/seminar for adults grieving parents taking place at the big name school that I alluded to above, so we'll see how that goes. Not being there is especially hard on me, because when the hospital called to get us in there, it went to a family member's phone who didn't hear it - and the hospital didn't try calling me as the backup. As a result of mi
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1 year ago
Tyson Dunn
https://www.exmormon.org/phorum/read.php?2,2419804,2419804#msg-2419804
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1 year ago
Tyson Dunn
> Congratulations on maintaining a reasonable semblance of normal function. You are doing well to get out of bed, get dressed, and go to work. Thanks. Being the resilient one in the family is what got me to be the one to bear the load of fixing my parents' issues. > You might try looking for faculty at a local university or medical school for a therapist on your level. Most faculty
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1 year ago
Tyson Dunn
Also, my condolences to everyone else who is still bearing their own grief. I know that my mother very much did not want to die alone. She told us this repeatedly, and it's one of the things that makes this hardest. In the hospital, while she was still awake, we know that she called out repeatedly for my brother who took care of her. At some point, the staff gave her something to calm her down
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1 year ago
Tyson Dunn
I simply hated having it pointed out to me at every session that I was expanding my therapist's vocabulary by simply talking. A therapist who is confident enough not to make such observations would be fine with me. Tyson
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1 year ago
Tyson Dunn
"confused in arizona" needs to recognize that his own family and his wife's family, as well as their friends, business associates, and ward members all have a stake in his family maintaining the appearance of being believing members to reinforce their sense that what they believe in is right. And if they think his wife and children need to be "protected" from his apostasy,
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1 year ago
Tyson Dunn
For those you who have mourned parents, I was wondering how you dealt with the day-to-day. It's been almost three months since I lost my mother. I've been unmotivated and yet stupidly busy at the same time. Concentration at work is very hard. I don't enjoy many of the things I liked before. I find moments every day where I don't quite hyperventilate, but it feels really similar, when I get
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1 year ago
Tyson Dunn
Asking these questions will raise red flags with them about why you're having questions and doubts, and it will prime them to try to drive a wedge between you and your spouse. If you expect to keep your family, you need to be smart about how you go about this, because you can definitely expect that they'll try to get your wife and children away from you. As for the answers you'll get to your
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2 years ago
Tyson Dunn
https://secureyourtrademark.com/can-you-trademark/trademark-clothing-design/ I am not a lawyer, but that sounds in line with what I remember. Brands and logos, yes; clothing design, no. (The link notes that a design patent might be possible, but that would require it to do something besides being a piece of clothing. I'm not sure heavenly fire insurance counts.) Tyson
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2 years ago
Tyson Dunn
Seriously, I don't know what this word is supposed to be, even with the clarification. Please elucidate. Tyson
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2 years ago
Tyson Dunn
For those who might want to respond. Tyson
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2 years ago
Tyson Dunn
Victor L. Ludlow, then religion professor at BYU-Provo, in a March 9, 2004 BYU–Idaho (formerly Ricks College) Devotional with the ridiculously long title 'Covenants: Our Bond with the Divine | Helping Us "Out of the Pit"' uses the phrase "the covenant path". However, it has to be noted that this is one of 160+ times that the word "covenant" appears in the talk. The
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2 years ago
Tyson Dunn
I suspect that's the underhanded game they're playing. I've never seen it either, but it feels like the kind of thing they'd do to look more generically Christian. Tyson
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