Posted by:
The 1st FreeAtLast
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Date: August 24, 2013 04:07AM
...a future to create. The remainder of your life is in your hands now and will be strongly affected by what you think and the feelings that your thoughts trigger.
If you wish to enjoy your inner life more, to spend more of your waking hours happy, you'll need to learn to not feel sorry for yourself. It's a challenge that many people, myself included, have had.
I've found that it's a useful psychological exercise to spend time thinking about what I enjoy - good health, working limbs, enough to eat, a clean place to live, etc. - rather than spend time focusing on what I don't have. I used to do the latter a lot.
We don't have to look very far for true stories that help us to put things into perspective. On Thursday night, I read on CNN's website about a World War II veteran, Delbert Benton, age 88, who was beaten to death by some vicious teenagers in Spokane, WA.
Mr. Benton had reportedly survived the Battle of Okinawa during the spring of 1945 after being shot. Tragically, more than 68 years later, in August 2013, he wasn't able to survive the teens' blows.
Life isn't fair, a reality that we can learn to fully and non-judgmentally accept. There is a lot of unfairness in our world - and a lot of goodness, which we each can contribute to with our choices, words, and behavior.
Two years ago, I read on a Utah govt. webpage that said 6,000 Mormons died crossing the plains in the 1800s, a number that was much higher than what I'd been led to believe. Six thousand men, women, and children perished in harsh circumstances for a religious fraud - that's supremely unfair.
My final comment has to do with imagination, which can be cultivated and enjoyed at any age. Ever heard of the author Alan Bradley? He's in his mid-70's and wrote his first novel, "The Sweetness at the Bottom of the Pie", in 2006. It got rave reviews, won awards, and became a bestseller.
Bradley was subsequently contracted to write five more novels centered around the same 11-year-old female protagonist, Flavia Deluce, and the series has been optioned for TV movies by director Sam Mendes. Consequently, Bradley is doing very well financially.
Due to his literary success, Alan and his wife Shirley sold their modest home (in the community where I live) and have traveled extensively since 2009. A delightful interview w/ him is online at
http://www.cbc.ca/thenextchapter/episode/2013/03/25/shelaghs-extended-conversation-with-alan-bradley/Having liberated yourself from the chronically dishonest, time-wasting, and fraudulent LD$ Church, you now have the opportunity - and the pleasure - to figure out what you want to do with your future. What do you want to experience? What are your interests? You're the captain of the ship of your life; it'll go in whichever direction you set.
Best wishes!