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forestpal
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Date: August 27, 2013 06:08PM
"The Work of Salvation" does not bode well with my family.
My children and I formally resigned from the cult together; however one daughter married a TBM RM in the temple, and they are raising their children to be Mormons. So far, religion has been a subject that is off limits to all of us. I don't want to be pestered, and my TBM son-in-law and his family do not want to hear the Truth. Son-in-law's family shuns us. We did well with this stalemate, for 8 years. Fortunately, there are thousands of other things to talk about. We are very busy with our children, careers, sports, hobbies, non-Mormon friends, trips, yard work, charity work, other churches--as I said, a thousand things.
My daughter came home early from Mormon sacrament meeting last Sunday, disgusted. She says that she misses the old sermons at the Lutheran church, about Christ, God, Love, Helping Others, and all those other subjects that used to inspire and uplift her. Now, she says, all the talks are the same, and all are about re-activating "the less active" and recruiting new members. They say, "Think hard, and pray hard. SURELY there is someone you know--a neighbor, co-worker, family-member--and even people you don't know--that you can influence. Start a discussing in the grocery store line or on the airplane...bla-bla-bla. Never give up on anyone. These people NEED the gospel in their lives!" My TBM son-in-law is very popular, and his response was, "Sounds like a good way to lose friends."
But the point of my post is that my daughter and her family live in my same old ward, and they are pestering them to bring ME back.
DD: "They really want you there, Mom." Me: "They need organists and pianists."
DD: "But, Mom, they really miss you." Me: " No, my former Mormon "friends" have never called me, have never stopped to talk to me in the grocery store. I'm still alive, and in my house--how can they "miss me?"
My daughter says church depresses her. My Som-in-law just plays with his i-phone in sacrament meeting, which makes my daughter mad, because he is the one who forces everyone to go to church, and then he doesn't even listen. He leaves the room when his TBM family start talking about Mormonism. He and my daughter didn't attend regularly, until they both were given callings, which serve the purpose of not allowing them to take a break unless they find a substitute. We miss our fun extended-family outings on Sundays. It is painful to watch that happy little family being swallowed, used, and chewed-up by an evil cult, and by the minions who don't really care about them. Now, the Mormons are coming after me and my other children again, to do the same thing to us, again. NEVER!
I would like someone on RFM to write a form letter for us, as a guide, like the Letters of Resignation from the Mormon church. Only this letter would be to bishops, stake presidents, RS presidents, neighbors, and the bishops of our married children and grandchildren--or anyone who is instigating this "Work of Salvation" locally, in our neighborhoods.
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>>Dear (whoever you are),
>>Please do not pressure my family (names) to try to reactivate me. I formally resigned 8 years ago, and was met with so much opposition and delay, that I had to call Greg Dodge in person, and threaten to sue the LDS church. In my resignation decree, I demanded for "NO CONTACT" from Mormon representatives. I am living a good Christian life as an active Lutheran, and I was recently baptized into their church. I do almost all of my charity work and donations through a coalition of local Christian churches. I will never donate to the Mormons. I want to be left alone, to live my very happy life.
>>I love my family, above all else. I will not allow your organization to pester and manipulate my family members into trying to recruit me or (names of my other children) who are Lutherans and Methodists. My Mormon children and grandchildren are cooperative and friendly to everyone--but I am not as nice when it comes to the Mormon church and its invasive tactics. Your cult's aggressiveness is dividing our family once again, and causing arguments that are completely unnecessary.
>>You are losing your own members over this, who believe they are going to your church building to worship God, and only get brow-beaten into going out and recruiting new members. Stop "reaching out" or we ex-Mormons will start "reaching out" in the community, with the Truth about Joseph Smith, church history, the Book of Mormon and the Book of Abraham, and exactly why your group does not disclose its finances.
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I would like to take out a restraining order against the Mormons, but my daughter and son-in-law would be humiliated. They made me take down my "No Soliciting" sign off my door. They say, "But, these are our FRIENDS." Their children play together at each other's houses, and go to the same schools. I know, from experience, that my grandchildren would be painfully marginalized at any sign of a crazy grandma that chases away the missionaries. What can I do? I can't move away, because of my career, and my other children live in our same neighborhood.
Help!
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 08/27/2013 06:09PM by forestpal.