Posted by:
forestpal
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Date: January 31, 2011 04:53AM
If you don't meet any guys to date, you at least have a wonderful time, get some exercise, and feel cheered up.
I have been divorced for 15 years, and have no intention of ever getting married again. When I was first divorced, I was given a calling in the stake singles, and then the regional singles. This was the older singles, and I was one of the youngest people in it. What a nightmare! I was hit on by ex-convicts, polygamists, crazies, recovering drug addicts (nothing wrong with that, but I had no understanding of drug addiction) men older than my father, liars and phonies, and gay men (who became my friends, and were the best of the lot). I was shocked at how immoral they were.
I also made non-Mormon friends through work, and they were much more genuine and moral. They are still my friends.
The only good thing about the LDS singles, was that I made some fun women friends. They were fun until they got married, that is. Once they're married, associating with the singles is the last thing they want to do.
Yes, definitely stay away from the Mormons, and date only non-Mormons, if you plan on getting married someday. Remember, you marry someone you are dating.
I went back to graduate school, when I was in my late 30's, and I had more date offers than I could handle! Really! This included a couple of teachers, and students in their 20's.
I've met a few nice single non-Mormon men while walking my dog, and we felt at ease, because we were in the same neighborhood, and the setting was casual.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 01/31/2011 04:55AM by forestpal.