I don't know any of those spots yet, as I'm moving this week. Based on your post, I think I'll start there. So it looks like the group in oc might be the closest one that meets with any regularity.
Even though I live in Simi and work in Newbury Park, I tend to spend most of my weekend time at the Camarillo airport, so anything in the Oxnard/Camarillo/Ventura area would work for me.
What area are you moving to? (if you are free to divulge)
I think Camarillo would be a nice central location. Surfers point would probably be crowded on the weekend, but perhaps not in the off-season. Wait, why am I posting here, I don't live in the VC... but I am from there ;-)
Meeting at Johnny's Burritos on the Avenue, just down from the old Hell's Angels meeting house should be relatively free of lurking TBM's... :-) :-) :-)