Posted by:
Searching27
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Date: February 08, 2011 06:27PM
My cousin, TBM, who is in her mid 20's on her first boyfriend ever, with whom might I add was also her first date.. have been dating for 3 months..... He is a non member and a really great guy. He has piercings etc and is very good looking....
When they first started dating she "warned" him I was the exmo of the family (in a joking way, we are very close) and now they are talking marriage and he is taking his piercings out etc....... He is doing this because his goal is to make her happy and then he will be happy. He says it makes him happy so I am supportive. But should I breach the subject with them if there is talk of him joining tscc? Or should I just be supportive.
When he and I first met we talked church chat a few minutes and I gave him resources. I am just afraid he will join to make her happy and to be with her and down the road he won't be happy and just doing things to make her happy.....