Posted by:
lostinutah
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Date: February 13, 2011 10:56AM
I woke up this morn with the light shining in my brain regarding an episode that I just couldn't figure out until reading posts on this board.
I used to live in a little Utah town not too far from my current town of Moab, and I briefly met this woman there (her house was for sale and I looked at it), then I moved back to Colorado, and her husband died shortly thereafter. I called her to see if the house had sold and to wish her well, and we got to talking about where I was living (Ouray) and she wanted to come over, saying it would be good for her mental space.
So, she came over and had her daughter and son and his gf with her (all in their 20s). I had emailed her the names of several motels, so in no way did I make them think my house was up for grabs, I barely knew them. Next thing I knew, I was in the middle of the weirdest drama, which I won't go into, but I will just say it involved them wanting to use my beautiful log cabin (a rental) as a base camp - huge boundary issues. It was like they tried to take over my house and in the meantime they were very disdainful of me, treating me like an inferior.
I quickly shut it down and never saw or talked to her again, but it left me feeling like a jerk, as I had to be hugely assertive to get my point across - no, you're not sleeping in my bed while I take the couch, you are not inviting your friends from Utah over to stay here, etc. etc.
I was kind of shocked by their behavior, but now I see the light, as I recently found out they are Mos, and after reading about how Mos have boundary issues like that and think they're superior to us heathens, it all made sense.
Disgusting manners, never again.