Posted by:
exmo59
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Date: January 06, 2014 11:49PM
I find it ironic that men are accused of objectifying women, valuing them only for their body. Yet women do this to themselves more than men.
Apparently women think that because men look at porn, that they will leave their wife, because they think their body is all their husband sees in their relationship, and he likes the porn body better. The insecurity of women is because they place greater value on their looks and body than do men.
If a man thought this way, he would think his wife only values him for his money. So anytime his wife looked at stuff another man provides (with big money), he should feel insecure and fear she will leave him. Is that what you women will do?
My wife watches shows with fancy homes and furniture, etc, which I cannot provide. Should I tell her how dirty and evil she is, and how disgusting is her lust for material things? Is that how women want to be helped with their "shopping problem"?
I should actually fear that more, as most divorces are over money, and most are initiated by women. But for some reason men don't spend a lot of time worrying about that. There is no shaming and banning of advertisements (porn) that encourage spending money. BYU probably even has a marketing department.
Not only do women fantasize about material things, they also fantasize about movie stars and characters in romance novels. Should I be paranoid about that? Will she leave me for Fabio?
Ever read a steamy romance novel? Fascinating that as long as there is no nude images, a book can be quite explicit, even available in the public library. So apparently the fantasies of women are fine, but men are disgusting pigs.
As I see it, generally speaking, to get power, men are busy out conquering the world. Not real great with relationships and manipulating others. Women gain power by emotional manipulation and shame and by withholding sex.
Shame others to get power, all the while crying victimization to get more power.
Ironic that the church gives more power to women, despite the accusations that it is oppressive. The men are just puppets doing what the women want - bashing men, telling them weekly how disgusting they are.
Many here share that disgust. There are more women now who realize this has all gone too far:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w__PJ8ymliw