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Posted by: Hold Your Tapirs ( )
Date: January 08, 2014 08:13PM

My bishop told me that he's not seeing lots of people leave the church. I live in the Atlanta area, maybe the apostasy pandemic hasn't made it to the deep south yet.

Here's to hoping that more southern TBM's see the light.



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 01/08/2014 08:13PM by Hold Your Tapirs.

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Posted by: thingsithink ( )
Date: January 08, 2014 08:16PM

How many is he seeing leaving?

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Posted by: Dave the Atheist ( )
Date: January 08, 2014 08:22PM

eyes wide shut

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Posted by: donbagley ( )
Date: January 08, 2014 08:23PM

Perhaps he sees people leaving in throngs rather than droves.

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Posted by: resipsaloquitur ( )
Date: January 08, 2014 09:20PM

Or people leaving in thongs.

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Posted by: Anonymous User ( )
Date: January 09, 2014 10:29AM

You can certainly see the cracks appearing....

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Posted by: secretnotsacred ( )
Date: January 08, 2014 10:37PM

not leaving in their garmies? Oh the humanity!

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Posted by: Cheryl ( )
Date: January 08, 2014 08:26PM


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Posted by: Hold Your Tapirs ( )
Date: January 08, 2014 08:37PM

Droves it is then. Me and one other that I know of so far in my ward. There are a couple youth that have come across MT as well and they're struggling.

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Posted by: BG ( )
Date: January 08, 2014 08:27PM

While all this hastening of the work is going on, how many full tithe payers has his ward picked up?

My sister is about as TBM as you can get, she was just released after serving many years in about as high a calling as you can get as a woman in the Church not living in Utah. She was talking about how glad she was to be released and how little thanks she got, and was making snarky comments about having to clean toilets while the Church owns huge malls and half of rural Florida.

Most the time I think people who say the Church is going to implode are just not realistic, but trust me when my sister starts seeing the light, you know things can't be going well.

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Posted by: Hold Your Tapirs ( )
Date: January 08, 2014 08:27PM

He said basically no one. Although that's not necessarily true. There's another person in my ward that feels the same way I do. I would think there's at least a couple more but I'm not certain.

Maybe I was living in a bubble, but I believe members in the south are more isolated against the "anti" literature because it's not coming from other mormons. Anti lit is usually pushed by the other churches and TBM's easily dismiss all of it as lies.

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Posted by: John Ferrier ( )
Date: January 08, 2014 08:29PM

Converts joining in droves. Is he seeing that? And are they staying active in droves?

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Posted by: Hold Your Tapirs ( )
Date: January 08, 2014 08:35PM

We're definitely not getting baptisms. The missionary work here is abysmal. Only 1 real convert (non 9 yr old) this year.

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Posted by: zenjamin ( )
Date: January 08, 2014 08:37PM

Soooooo - why did bish think to bring it up at all?

"I ain't askeered of the dark. Really!"

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Posted by: sonoma ( )
Date: January 08, 2014 08:59PM

In the past 10 years how many families have converted into the ward versus families that have left the cult?

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Posted by: workingwoman (not logged in) ( )
Date: January 08, 2014 09:14PM

Hold Your Tapirs, I live in the Atlanta area too. I can think of a few couples who left, including myself and my husband. maybe not "droves", but more than no one...

IMO growing up in the South you are put on your guard about anti stuff because you are such a minority. Also its really drilled into your head to be ultra TBM as an example and sort of ambassador for mormondom since there are so few here. Ha my coworker just found out I was raised Mormon and she told me the name of the only mormon she has ever known and of course I knew her. Tiny community, so if droves left there would be no one!

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Posted by: sonoma ( )
Date: January 08, 2014 09:37PM

With approx. 30,000 congregations worldwide, if just 2 long-term TBMs per congregation leave each year, that's 60,000. Sounds like "droves" to me!

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Posted by: thingsithink ( )
Date: January 08, 2014 09:43PM

That puts it in perspective. And you're just looking at long-term TBM's. You're not even counting the people who sign-up but drop out before the first billing cycle is over.

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Posted by: anonthistime ( )
Date: January 09, 2014 10:07AM

"first billing cycle" LMAO!

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Posted by: secretnotsacred ( )
Date: January 08, 2014 10:40PM

If you add their 5 kids, 60,000 turns into 210,000.

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Posted by: Cheryl ( )
Date: January 09, 2014 04:13AM


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Posted by: Leo Walsh ( )
Date: January 08, 2014 10:08PM

I also live in the Atlanta area and have seen some shrinkage in activity. I know several that left because of unbelief and a few spouses that no longer believe but attend for family sake. I guess you could say MT caused me to leave as well.

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Posted by: sonoma ( )
Date: January 08, 2014 10:12PM

Don't most Mormons leave in mini-vans?

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Posted by: wine country girl ( )
Date: January 09, 2014 09:57AM

Mini vans that they "drove". Pay attention.

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Posted by: capitolmoroni ( )
Date: January 08, 2014 10:27PM

Well keep in mind there are next to no members outside utah and idaho. I can't imagine many attending in the first place in all of Georgia.

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Posted by: munchybotaz ( )
Date: January 08, 2014 10:58PM

Your eyes get all glassy so's ya don't hafta see anything ya don't want to.

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Posted by: checkingout ( )
Date: January 08, 2014 11:42PM

Does a company want to admit it is losing customers?! Of course not! It would precipitate the loss. So of course the company man, the bishop, will tell you it is not happening...even if it is.

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Posted by: armtothetriangle ( )
Date: January 08, 2014 11:48PM

+ 100

Me thinks he doeth protest too loudly.

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Posted by: GNPE ( )
Date: January 08, 2014 11:56PM

Ok, people are leaving in Fords; and chevys, Hondas, Toyotas, etc etc etc. Maybe a mazda or a Chrysler thrown in for good measure.

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Posted by: anonthistime ( )
Date: January 08, 2014 11:57PM

You should ask him how many people are listed as part of the ward and how many are actually active...that would be a lot more telling. Most wards only have 20-50% actively attending.

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Posted by: Krampus! ( )
Date: January 09, 2014 04:23AM

activity rate in one of my areas in georgia with 80 members: 0%

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Posted by: Krampus! ( )
Date: January 09, 2014 04:25AM

in the year 2000

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Posted by: Anonymous User ( )
Date: January 09, 2014 05:02AM

Europe:

Number of members - 500,000
Number attending Sacrament Meeting - 100,000

I think 400,000 (80%) constitutes 'droves'

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Posted by: cludgie ( )
Date: January 09, 2014 06:32AM

It's myopic to think that way, accepting your home town/state area as the only thing going on in the world. Atlanta is one of the most dynamic cities in the country, so there are a lot of people coming to the area and swelling the numbers. To the myopic Mormons, they see success and growth, and the fact that there is no longer any viable Mormon church going on in other ares of the country doesn't faze them because they are locked into this ignorance. But there is something fundamentally wrong with a church in which almost 70% of their membership dislikes it so much that they will have nothing to do with it.

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Posted by: Cheryl ( )
Date: January 09, 2014 09:09AM

If there's slight growth in Mormonism, that would be the reason. I would think the Mormon church is probably growing slower there than more trendy activities and services.

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