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Date: January 12, 2014 03:51PM
For a couple years now I've never had trouble with the idea that religion could be correct, or the idea that atheism could be correct and I'm am perfectly happy finding middle ground that makes me feel comfortable while accepting different possibilities (of course, without being wishy-washy or a total push-over).
But why do SO many people have to go so extreme? I just don't understand. On both sides of the spectrum at almost any age. I've seen plenty of atheists who think "This is the only way and anyone who doesn't agree is ignorant, mindless, or bigoted" and I see so many religious people who think "If you don't believe my religion you're doomed or you're an ignorant and immoral a-hole". I also hear comments such as (literal quote) "I just can't wrap my head around the idea that [my perfect idea of life and god] isn't the way it is" (while their idea was riddled with misconceptions and contradictions) and an atheist person who, when proven incorrect on a subject that they related to why atheism is correct, literally said "That is irrelevant".
Why is it so hard to be relaxed and open to different ideas? Why is it nearly impossible for some people to just say "Oh, I was wrong, I should fix that problematic line of thinking"?