Posted by:
rmw
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Date: February 16, 2011 09:43AM
When we left we were very honest with our friends and called them each up and talked with each of them personally. We talked as little as possible about our reasons for leaving and as much as possible about our eagerness to preserve our friendship. They were all crying and bearing their testimonies and telling us how much they loved us ect...then? Silence...I wasn't invited to anything anymore. I was sure that they would keep in contact with me at least to be a good reminder of the church, even if they didn't want to be friends any more. I had remained very close with my friends who had left the church (though obviously I was different, that's why I'm out). I hear about love bombs and all this stuff, not my awesome friends, they just hit the road. Sure, they scope out my life on my blog and send me Christmas cards, but I'm not invited to anything anymore and it's been about 2 years. It's like it's only safe to interact with me via the internet and then only in a very sparce and superficial way. We heard from some friends (who are now leaving) that instantly people started talking about how we were "anti"ed. Like we got shot with an antimoron lazer beam that fried our brains.
All that to ask, is there a different way the members are supposed to treat apostates rather than inactives...because seriously, we have the plague.