Posted by:
ayawneemous
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Date: February 21, 2011 09:59AM
I live apart from my kids currently due to economic issues. My contact with them has been limited to post mail and phone, as the ex is paranoid about the internet beyond all rationality. However, last night my tbm ex wife finally allowed me to video chat with my kids. First time for everything I guess. We had a good conversation, made faces, showed art work, and that kind of thing. My daughter, who hasn't been online in a couple months (since she was with me) got to check her email. I'd sent a link to a video of an exmo talking about her positive experiences outside of the church. I wanted my daughter to know that good things can come outside of the morg.
As soon as she went to load the video, with me still chatting with her, the ex cut her off and said she would not allow that kind of media in the house. We've had this discussion before--her censoring my beliefs to the kids. Her monitoring my communications and cutting them off whenever we get into topics that are "forbidden".
My kids are actually interested in other viewpoints and secretly hope to have a reason not to attend the most-boring-morgue-church on earth. What would you do?