Posted by:
Cheryl
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Date: February 21, 2011 10:49AM
Have you ever talked to mormons or exmormons who say they loved growing up in the mormon church because of its cleancut activities and positive programs? Or whatever?
I think many many members attend for a lifetime without seeing the backbiting, the manipulation, the possible sexual perversions, or the physical and emotional abuse in many of the most cheerful and happy-looking mormon families.
For example, I would bet that no one in my childhood ward saw the signs that my family ran a polygamy compound and worshipped a fundie plyg prophet when we weren't attending primary and sacrament meetings. They would have no idea that my mother was depressed and cried in her bedroom many days or that my rageful father sometimes smashed furniture and threw kids across the room. We looked and acted like every other sugary morgbot family.
Does anyone else know of such situations? Were they in your family or did you find about about them later? Or did everyone know what was happening and lend a blind eye to it?
Was anyone surprised years later to find out that a mormon ward had a sick underbelly?
Were you surprised to find out about abuses or infidelities? About overly intrusive bishop interrogations and RS character assasinations?
I think some of these things are invisible to those who are not personally involved. Then it comes as a shock when we find out that we attended church for years with practicing polygamists or child abusers in the bishopric.
Image is sometimes more important than reality to morgbots.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 02/21/2011 11:12AM by Cheryl.