Posted by:
SusieQ#1
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Date: March 03, 2011 12:23PM
bookratt Wrote:
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> Once again, these poor children.
>
> SuzieQ's two, who witnessed this bizzaro mess and
> the ill treatment of that poor woman in that
> wheelchair, and of their own mother.
>
> Then, those two young boys in the other story.
>
> What do you think any of these kids learned in
> either case? That church is a safe place, or a
> haven?
>
> That women and children matter, too?
>
> That there are ways to try and solve even
> difficult conflicts, such as compromise or
> negotiation, or that good communication starts by
> being articulate and calm? And that sometimes,
> saying "I'm sorry" can fix a lot?
>
> Does anyone know if that man was reprimanded for
> what he did, in the second story, the "sick of the
> homosexuality" one?
>
> And as for the breastfeeding stories, yes. Gross.
> Bathrooms in public places these days, even
> plushy, frou-frou places, are sometimes very germy
> and stinky. I used to hate doing that, so I
> finally just stopped doing it, and began feeding
> my baby wherever and whenever he was hungry.
>
> It's getting better and maybe a bit easier now
> (depends where you are; over here it's just plop,
> oh, look, a boob, that's boring, move along) but 8
> years ago in the US, I got looks, I got stupid
> comments, eye rolls, and requests to "please go do
> that somewhere else, like maybe the bathroom."
> Like "that" wasn't feeding my baby, but instead an
> exotic striptease with monkeys and ponies thrown
> in, for show.
>
> People are rude, people are unfair, and sometimes,
> you just have to fight for what you need, or what
> your kids need. Sometimes it's best to retreat,
> sometimes it's better to come out all guns
> blazing. Other times, most of the times, the best
> thing to do is to tell the truth and stick to your
> guns.
>
> So glad you did both, SuzieQ. That apology was
> earned.
At the time, I did "Elder Services" as my own business, so my first thought and concern was for the woman in the wheelchair! That is why I called Adult Protective Services.
The interesting thing about the apology is the fact that the man must have been thinking about what happened for nine months! That was a heavy burden for him to carry. All that time, he could have called me, or come to my home as I lived just a couple of miles away. The second he saw me in his driveway, he made a beeline to me to make an apology for the incident.
I wanted him to know that their mishandling of the incident was because they didn't listen to me.