Posted by:
forestpal
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Date: November 20, 2010 05:07AM
When I was in the primary, all my friends were in the primary. The same with Scouts, YW, SS, RS.
When I moved to Utah and became the organist, I was lonely--except for the 2-4 requests every week for me to accompany people, and all the party invitations for me to play the piano, choir, road shows, fashion shows, weddings, funerals, school musicals, rehearsals, etc. I was one of those people who was too busy to spend time with my real friends.
As long as I kept playing, I was "popular." Yet, I never socialized outside of the buildings, was never invited into their homes, not invited out to lunch or a movie, to play tennis, or anything friends would do--why?--because I was a divorcee! A single working mother! Thus, my Mormon friends were single, too, and when they got married, they were friends with only couples.
There was a thread about National Unfriend Day, which I really identified with. I am so sick of being shunned as an apostate, now. When I'm honest about it, I really don't want to be friends with rude, negative, critical, boring people who make me depressed. Well, I'm being rude--would be more polite to say that "we have nothing in common."