Posted by:
wine country girl
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Date: January 14, 2011 11:50AM
One recurring theme I read on RFM is a person comes out of the closet regarding lack of belief in mormonism and the TBM family member; wife, mother, father, sibling, whatever, freaks out over the loss of their "eternal family" or the concern that "Satan has control over" the non-believer. And I wonder, what do you say to such a person? I'm reminded of my mentally ill son's paranoid delusions. Mental health professionals suggest the best way to talk to a delusional person is not to argue the delusion but to show understanding for how that delusion makes them feel.
For instance, your loved one says "You're being controlled by Satan." You might say, "I understand you're afraid, but I'm right here, the same person I've always been and I love you."
Can you see your TBM in this question "What Do You Say to Someone Who is Delusional" and the subsequent answer by a Clinical Psychologist::
http://counsellingresource.com/ask-the-psychologist/2007/10/23/paranoid-delusions/