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Posted by: Jon ( )
Date: January 18, 2011 05:37PM

There's quite a bit of sexual tension on the board today.

So I just wanted to say that I don't think there's too much that beats a good old, animalistic session with your significant other/others.

The Church treats sex as a hushed, delicate act used only for the purposes of procreation.

I say NO!

What is wrong with ripping each others clothes off with your teeth and going at it till you collapse in a sweaty heap?

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Posted by: BadGirl ( )
Date: January 18, 2011 05:40PM

Everybody has different turn-ons. Animalistic does not work for me.

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Posted by: DNA ( )
Date: January 18, 2011 05:41PM

BadGirl Wrote:
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> Everybody has different turn-ons. Animalistic
> does not work for me.

I call a foul on choice of board name!

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Posted by: BadGirl ( )
Date: January 18, 2011 05:42PM

That's what works for me.

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Posted by: silhouette ( )
Date: January 19, 2011 01:25AM

Concur.

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Posted by: voltaire ( )
Date: January 18, 2011 05:40PM

it's called "Jungle Sex."

|:-o

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Posted by: Queen of Denial ( )
Date: January 18, 2011 05:46PM


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Posted by: GayLayAle ( )
Date: January 18, 2011 05:46PM


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Posted by: Queen of Denial ( )
Date: January 18, 2011 05:47PM

I have complete faith that you can think of SOMETHING to do on your back. ;)

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Posted by: GayLayAle ( )
Date: January 18, 2011 05:51PM


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Posted by: sonoma ( )
Date: January 18, 2011 06:08PM


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Posted by: Queen of Denial ( )
Date: January 18, 2011 06:17PM


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Posted by: sonoma ( )
Date: January 18, 2011 06:09PM


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Posted by: GayLayAle ( )
Date: January 18, 2011 06:13PM

...which makes me sad. :( LOL

The hubby is a VERY SEXY bearcub though :)

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Posted by: Cristina ( )
Date: January 18, 2011 05:51PM

My parents paid a lot of money for my straight teeth to chip them ripping my significant other's buttons off his shirt. Have you noticed what dentists are charging these days?

And speaking of shirts, those shirts are rather nice and expensive to be casually ripping them. To say nothing of how I would feel if any of my blouses or underwear were ripped.

I go to a lot of trouble shopping, washing, dry cleaning, wearing nice things to get saliva (and from what you describe, potentially, blood) on my clothes.

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Posted by: Timothy ( )
Date: January 18, 2011 05:55PM

When beloved nevermo spouse of thirty-two years and I first met, it was romance, foreplay, the act, smoke a cigarette.

After a few years, it was foreplay, the act, smoke a cigarette.

A few years later, it was the act, smoke a cigarette.

Then, not long ago, I'd just light one up and ask "Was that good for you, sweetheart?"

I've since quit smoking. DAMN!

Oh, how I long for the days of wild monkey sex!

Timothy

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Posted by: Queen of Denial ( )
Date: January 18, 2011 06:04PM


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Posted by: ExMormonRon ( )
Date: January 18, 2011 05:56PM

You and me we ain't nothin' but mammals so let's do it like they do on the Discovery Channel!

Ahem...


ron

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Posted by: matt ( )
Date: January 18, 2011 06:13PM

I bet you'd want your ***significant other, main squeezer, honey, lover, to do the sewing of all the chewed up and spat out clothes, yeah?

***Fuck! I sound like a thesaurus! ;oD

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Posted by: formermormer ( )
Date: January 18, 2011 09:57PM

Hopefully I can get some of the topic later tonight. *crosses fingers*

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Posted by: Gullibles Travels ( )
Date: January 18, 2011 10:55PM

Dh & I were trying not to wake the kids so took it to the floor. A week later his carpet burns still haven't healed.

If we aren't feelin' it the next morning then we didn't do it right. ;-D

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Posted by: Gullibles Travels ( )
Date: January 18, 2011 11:01PM

I usually hear about men wanting sex more than their SO.

How many females find they have the bigger appetite in the relationship?

Just to be fair: Since I've hit my 30's I find that I am the one with the hotter sex drive most of the time, and even before that I was never the kind of woman that ever got 'headaches' if you know what I mean.

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Posted by: piper ( )
Date: January 19, 2011 04:00PM

I do. And it has been that way since I first got married, about 10 years ago. Can be frustrating at times.

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Posted by: Anon this time ( )
Date: January 20, 2011 09:18AM

Yep, I'm the one who wants it more. It's bad enough feeling deprived. But it's worse feeling like something is horribly wrong with me because I'm female and feeling deprived. We women are supposed to have to fight the men off, not the other way around.

All I need is an ugly mu-mu and I'd be another "Mrs. Roper" trying to get Stanly interested again.

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Posted by: CL2 ( )
Date: January 18, 2011 11:03PM

I'll just say I'm going to visit my boyfriend on Saturday . . . when you only get to see each other for 5 or 6 days every other month, you make the most of it.

GT--I'm 53--since I was in a "sexless" marriage after about age 35--I can only go by what I know now. Actually--I think we are fairly equal (except during the work week--he works longer hours--I work at home).

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Posted by: Ms. ( )
Date: January 18, 2011 11:28PM

. . . women have the bigger appetite, especially in the 30s . . . and if they don't have kids (or not too many) that they are home with all day. It's the kid thing that makes it seem like women have a less active libido. Men start to slow down in their 30s, but not too much.

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Posted by: Stormy ( )
Date: January 19, 2011 01:21AM

It'll have to be in the morning...my SO is sound asleep...hmm...when did that ever bother him...

stormy

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Posted by: wine country girl ( )
Date: January 19, 2011 04:03PM

I remember that.

As I recall.... lots of licking involved.

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Posted by: Jon ( )
Date: January 19, 2011 04:06PM

What once we used to do all night now takes us all night to do once...

Seriously though, with Red Bull and a following wind miracles can still happen...

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Posted by: raven ( )
Date: January 20, 2011 07:46AM

Found out a bf told some friends I was a nympho because when we saw each other every two months I would want to have sex at least twice a day for the weekend. We were in our mid twenties. I had a minimum requirement for 3 Os, which did not take long. He was the only one who registered a complaint as far as I know. I think he had a low sex drive. Now I am taking medication that has killed my sex drive. I am single so it does not inconvenience anyone but myself.

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Posted by: Mag ( )
Date: January 20, 2011 08:24AM

I'm female, 25 my husband is 29 and I have 3x the sex drive that he has. It's always been that way, I used to think something was wrong with me... girls aren't supposed to like sex right?

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Posted by: raven ( )
Date: January 20, 2011 08:41AM

Actually in the medieval period women were viewed as sexually insatiable. Beware those merry widows.

The Victorian period created the women as children and nice girls don't like sex image.

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Posted by: ExMormonRon ( )
Date: January 20, 2011 09:07AM

I had that once. Too bad nobody was around to see it.

Just sayin'...

Ron

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Posted by: my2cents ( )
Date: January 20, 2011 09:57AM

I forgot who ties who up.


(As seen on a sticker stuck to the bumper of a 1974 Chev Pick-up)

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Posted by: notamomo ( )
Date: January 20, 2011 10:22AM

It's taken me until my 40's to reach my peak as they say. Don't know how much was biology and how much was the damage done by that effing cult we all know and hate. But all I can say is after 24 years of marriage, it's the best it's ever been!

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Posted by: Jon ( )
Date: January 20, 2011 10:25AM

If we are feeling raunchy we like to play a naughty game entitled:

"The Prophet and Fanny Alger..."

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Posted by: notamomo ( )
Date: January 20, 2011 10:28AM

Jon Wrote:
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> If we are feeling raunchy we like to play a
> naughty game entitled:
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> "The Prophet and Fanny Alger..."


Uggh...if I think of horny ole Joe I'll get a female version of a limp noodle.

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Posted by: T-Bone ( )
Date: January 20, 2011 10:43AM

Haha. After the first few years of marriage, we needed a new bed frame.

We also had to have the sofa cleaned a few times, the carpet shampooed, and a new curtain rack for the shower.

Don't even ask about the ceiling fan...

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Posted by: nocleverusername ( )
Date: January 20, 2011 10:55AM

A good romp is so healing, makes the stress of everyday life doable. I am in a fairly new relationship and the sex is "holy shit, OMG. WTF was that? I don't care what it was, it feels good, now do it again. And again and again!" I am 25 (female) and have had an extremely high sex drive since I was a teenager with the exception of a few years of pregnancy and breastfeeding (and an unhealthy marriage). Honestly, hearing that women peak in their 30's is a little scary. Where will I find the time and energy for all of that sex? I think we'll figure it out ;)

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