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Date: January 24, 2011 03:22PM
A friend of mine knows a man who has been dating my ex-husband. We split about 5 years ago over addiction issues, I am happily remarried, but this just blows my mind. He really ruined my life at the time. I feel shocked, somewhat happy for him, and a little confused.
He is an RM, extremely private, very conflicted and high anxiety in retrospect. As time went on, he was never home and amassed a staggering amount of debt in both our names. However, He went out of his way to portray himself as captain peter priesthood and even told me that I was ruining our eternal family by not wanting to wear garments. He made me feel awful for thinking the temple was creepy. We hiked through the Grand Canyon in July (over 100 degrees!), and he had his garments sticking out of his shorts & practically dripping sweat just to make a point (I think I saw other tourists laughing at us, lol) But I digress.
I am happy for him if this is what he wanted all along (but wouldn't admit to himself or anyone else) and I am so pissed at myself and the church that we ever got married. I wish he would have just been true to himself in the beginning and that we would have never gotten involved.
Any other ladies here been through this? Would love support and perspectives from anyone. There are a lot of insightful people on this board. Thanks for listening.