Posted by:
gbtrout
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Date: April 09, 2011 01:54PM
I have severed ties with the church. Recently.
All of my friends and family know and some have tried to "reason" with me.
The other day my childhood neighbor and past bishop/stake president cornered me at a "party" and with tears in his eyes, and shaking hands, and with all the room watching and trying to hear what was said, ask me which sin I was committing that was clouding my judgement.
My beef is this:
no matter what you say the logical reasons are you that you don't agree that joseph smith translated a stack of gold sheets by looking into a hat at a glowing rock;
no matter what you say the logical reasons are God and Jesus didn't float above his head in the forest;
no matter what you say the logical reasons are about why the book of mormon couldn't have contained words and phrases that didn't exist until after Lehi floated the atlantic;
you are still a masturbating, porn watching, wife cheating, child neglecting loser because you don't see it their way.
The real difficulty is close family members, parents, in laws, brothers sisters do it.
The reason? They cannot discuss logic, because the minute they do, the are admitting that facts matter.
If facts matter they lose and they know it deep down.
So they must pin your non belief on a perceived human failures.
If you choose to maintain these relationships, you are maintaining relationships with people who think the worst of you in order to protect their own fragile thought process.
So I grew some real balls with the childhood neighbor and asked him if he knew people that looked at porn that were faithful members?
No response.