Posted by:
think4u
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Date: April 12, 2011 11:26PM
I have been through much of the same, but DH just became so very mean and abusive I finally asked for divorce.
Not one regret, but the pain and rejection with the kids will always be there. Now priesthood holding papa is the favorite, and I assume he always will be.
My 5 kids are all in their 30's and raising their own families active mormon, so I really am on my own for the rest of my journey on earth.
Somedays I am fine, sometimes I think I am just over it, but lately it has really gotten really bad, and when it is bad with my kids, I come here much more for support and as a safe place to express my anger.
Learning recently that they have been spying on me here for some time now really bugs me, not that I have said anything I regret, or I even care if they hear about, but it is just so very disrespectful of them, as this is MY one safe place, and now they have stuck their noses into my business once again.
And the fact that they some of them have been very angry about my posts and refused to be honest with me as to why is what really makes me mad. I just could not figure it out, and then a couple of weeks one son told me they read my posts on here.
Well, come aboard kids, do your thing if you must, and in the process you may just learn a few very disturbing things about the church you so love.
Oh well, I am movin' on. I would never in a million years go back to the fraud of the mo church, and even through it all, I am happier since I left. I can finally be true to who I really am, and what I really think and believe.
I feel for you though, and do not be surprised if you keep returning time and time again over many years. I left 4 years ago, and I am certainly not recovered yet. I officially resigned 9-9-09, so resignation does not necessarily equal recovery, I know that at least for me it most certainly did not.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 04/12/2011 11:30PM by think4u.