Posted by:
forestpal
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Date: April 21, 2011 01:21PM
We are having Easter dinner with the non-Mormons in our family. We're having Honeybaked ham, fresh pineapple, potatoes au gratin, grapefruit and avacado salad, Monterey artichokes, homemade French bread, veggies and humus, cherries jubilee (in flaming brandy) and See's candy.
My ex-Mo kids still want the traditional ham and cheesy potatoes, but everything else is recent tradition. I went to Dan's grocery here in Salt Lake, and they have a special on Mormon "salads" --giant plastic tubs of fish-eye tapioca salad, pistachio jello salad, ambrosia with more marshmallows than fruit, etc. It has been fun to change our eating habits along with other Mormon habits!
My Mormon daughter and TBM husband are away on a trip with his TBM family, and they will not attend church at all on Easter. My TBM neighbors across the street will be opening up their cabin, which is nowhere near any church. My other TBM neighbors allow their children to sleep in and enjoy their Easter baskets and skip church every Easter. My single TBM friend is having some singles over for brunch, and a welcome break from their singles ward. My empty-nester TBM friends are having pizza. Some of my musical TBM friends don't like the music restrictions, and they are going to the Catholic Easter service, just for the music.
One of the reasons I think Mormon church attendance is dwindling, is that they are offering less and less spirituality to the members, while demanding more and more busywork of them. It is fear, coercion, family and peer pressure that force them to attend. The cult is so negative. My TBM friend hadn't gone to church in months, and when she went last week, someone who never said 'hello' ran up to her to find out if she had a generator, and if she knows CPR. She said, "There isn't any worship anymore."
What's the POSITIVE draw? There are no truly uplifting, spiritual, traditional Easter or christmas services. There are no well-thought-out, intellectual, professional sermons. Not to mention, there is no more great music to inspire the soul.
I did a personal survey, and every one of my Christian friends say their family is going to church. The atheists are not, and most ex-Mormons are not. Are you?
I wish you sunshine!
HAPPY EASTER! >^..^<