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Stormy
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Date: May 22, 2011 07:41PM
All that's left are his mom and dad, and they' re staying with us. Which is fine with me since his mom is supervising bath time and I'm having a glass of wine.
His family did me in when we were first married and it hasn't changed much. Someone else just steps up to end plate and takes a swing.
Jake, his dad and mom and I fast down this evening and had a long talk. There's a lot they never knew because they didn't want to know. Always easier not to know. For instance my parents didn't pay our first wedding, I did. My parents hated Jake and refused to pay for our wedding..i paid for it from my trust find. Another for instance, I paid for jakes school his parents didn't. They were speechless. I told them I'm not sure now that I can deal with them. As much as I want to belong,i never will. I know I won't. I'll always wonder when I'll step on yet another bomb. The boys won't fit in either.
They were very quiet. Jake was quiet. He looked at his parents and then at me and said what's going to happen now? All I said was figure it out. Either aol this crap is resolved or we don't get married. It's that simple.
Talk your parents. His mom silence was all I needed to hear..she still doesn't want us to get married. I know that..now jake has to make a big decision...i don't need their approval but I do need his assurance that we'll always come first and his toxic family won't interfere. Let his family say what they will and be done with it and never mention or hint at out again.
So after baths they can sit down and talk it all out. Jake had promised me we be married but I'm not sure. His family even though they live far away never seem to give up.
stormy
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Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 05/22/2011 08:00PM by stormy.