Posted by:
kimball
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Date: May 24, 2011 11:53AM
My wife will be going out of town with the kids for a long visit with her family, mostly to see her grandparents before they pass on. She was debating how long she wanted to stay there, but when we decided that my best friend could come and batch it with me, she decided that she could be gone for 2 or 3 weeks in good conscience.
Now here's the deal. My friend is 29, single, and TBM. However, he knows about my doubts, and I've even pointed him in the direction of a small amount of anti-mormon material. He said he'd read it, but it's been several weeks without any response.
I know that the loss of my testimony was probably hard on him, as we often relied on and relished in the strength of eachother's faith in the gospel. He's also very similar to me in personality, and would likely see reason if he were exposed to it long enough. He likes edgy PG-13 movies, and would like R-rated ones too if the prophet allowed it. Basically, he sees the virtue in the "worldly" ideas, but stays within the technical boundaries of the church (if it ain't currently official, it ain't an obligation). He will watch an occasional R-rated movie if moved upon by the spirit.
He also hasn't had a web browser on his personal computer for a few years, which says something I think.
Anyway, I think if he's going to realize the truth about TSCC, he should do it before he gets married. He's pretty much been in continual depression for at least half a decade now about not being able to find an eternal companion. If he realizes the struggle he has avoided it would probably cheer him up.
So any suggestions about how to proceed with our 2-3 weeks of bachelorhood? Should I keep our fun clean and our conversation uplifting, or should I find some good R-rated movies and bring him into this board for lively discussion?
One way or another, having fun is a must.