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Date: May 30, 2011 11:44PM
Bona Dea mentioned this and the thread closed about the status of the dispute with my daughter over The Nudity and her parenting philosophy.
I forgot to tell you how that car incident turned out. For those who don't remember the original post, I was babysitting the 2 and 4 year old at the park. The four year old doesn't mind because his mother doesn't feel he should ever hear the word "no." She believes he should be asked if he would consider alternate behavior and then be allowed to choose. Soooo, the park has a little fenced area and I'm keeping both these rascals in. The little one is chasing down babies and biting them. The older one is throwing sand. My daughter takes him out and sits him down by a bench and tells him to stay there. Then she walks away.
I call after her "Shouldn't he come in here with me?" She answers, "No, I told him to stay here." I shake my head and turn my attention back to the two year old.
When it's time to leave, he is nowhere to be found. We look for him, go out to the street and there he is. He has opened the brand new Chrysler mini-van and is playing on the sidewalk. As we approach, he looks directly at my daughter, picks up a rock and makes a vertical gouge on the pristine gray paint, about 10" long.
I freeze. She screams his name, then says, "Did you think that was chalk? That's it, wasn't it, you thought it was chalk." She was shaking and I asked her if she wanted me to stay or go (I had my own car) and she said, "Just go. I'm just shaking because I don't know how I'm going to explain this to my husband. He will be livid, because it was on purpose."
The next day when I called her she was very relieved. She had hit a pole backing up to leave the park and broken a light fixture on the same side. Her husband took it right over to the body shop, assumed the scratch was part of the accident, so she never had to tell him. She was jubilant.
Anagrammy