Posted by:
whathaveidone
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Date: June 07, 2011 03:00PM
Several months ago (I'll have to check my records to find the exact date) my husband sent a resignation letter to the church. We followed the guidelines posted on this website. I think I had to threaten church members with harassment charges about 3 times before they finally stopped contacting us.
All I wanted to see from them was the confirmation letter. It has not come. How long does it usually take? I thought it was about 30 days. It has been about 3 months now I think. Should there be any more action on our part to ensure hubby's resignation is complete?
My biggest issue with this whole thing is that he was sealed to his ex in the temple and since I found out about that (after we were married) I have felt like he is still married to her. Mostly because he believes it himself. If I can't know for sure that he is no longer sealed to her, then I can't remain married to him. I'm sure that makes no sense to some of you, but that's just how it is for me. It would be different if HE didn't believe it, but he does.
So... how long should I wait and what's the next step?
Thanks to all for any advice you can offer!