Posted by:
Stray Mutt
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Date: July 01, 2011 02:51PM
I ran across a statement I'd saved from somewhere, because it's partly funny and partly true. I don't remember the source.
“Do what makes you happy. Unless you’re no good at the thing that makes you happy, in which case you shouldn’t do it.”
There are things I enjoy but I suck at. Knowing I suck takes some of the enjoyment out of it. I guess a person needs to lack self-awareness in order to derive full happiness from something they do badly.
The flip side of that is being very good at something that brings you no joy. That was my life in Mormonism. I was a very good Mormon and it wasn't hard for me. Except it made me very unhappy. The converse of the quote above gives me the creeps:
"Don't do what makes you unhappy, unless you're very good at the thing that makes you unhappy, in which case you should do it,"
So, what things make you happy even though you're bad at them, and what things make you unhappy even though you're good at them?