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atheist&happy:-)
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Date: July 10, 2011 06:00PM
After all the "gospel" is perfect, so SHE must be the problem.
She is trying to make the "gospel" workable by rationalizing away the fact that life is pain. Gawd's plan is for happiness! Also, a lot of members feel that any "bad" feeling is negative, and "contentious". I had a friend that would shut down any rational conversation of TSCC by saying she was not feeling the spirit. She was so uncomfortable when confronted with truth that contradicted LD$ propaganda that she interpreted normal responses to learning of deception as the "spirit" leaving. This was when I was TBM. Their facade has a high degree of maintenance.
Members believe "trials" (bad or tragic life events) are there for their own good. This gives them a distorted view of justice, and coping.
Members really believe if they do everything right "all things" will work for their good:
[D&C 90:24]: “Search diligently, pray always, and be believing, and all things shall work together for your good, if ye walk uprightly.”
http://lds.org/ensign/2004/05/all-things-shall-work-together-for-your-good?lang=engWhen things are not good, they will resort to deluding themselves.
Edited 3 time(s). Last edit at 07/10/2011 06:03PM by atheist&happy:-).