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Date: July 11, 2011 11:50AM
Well the little baby girl is here, and in my totally unbiased opinion, absolutely gorgeous. If I could I'd post a picture then all you other fond Grandmamas would think 'I thought my grandbaby was the bees knees, but this one...wow':)
So how did I do at keeping the Mormons out of the delivery room? It was a complete fail because, believe it or not, the doctor was a Mormon, complete with Magic Vest.
Now when I was a TBM I would have assumed that a Mormon, P-Hood holding doctor would in some way be more special than your ordinary, everyday doctor. He'd have a glow and a hotline to God.
Glad I'm no longer TBM or I would have been even more shocked than I was. Labour progressed fine, but after 2 and a half hours pushing the baby's head hadn't descended at all. Her heartbeat was dropping and there was a lot of meconium (sign of baby's distress) So what did Dr TBM do? Came in the room and started yelling at my poor exhausted daughter 'If you were really trying to push this baby out, she'd be here by now. Instead you're whining (by this time she cried ' I can't do it') and not putting any effort in. Well you can push for another half hour, and if you really try maybe we can get the baby out. If not it's a C-section'. Then he went on to list all the complications of a C-section, in an accusatory tone.
All the time he is ranting the baby's heart beat is dropping, dropping, dropping. He suddenly says,'We're doing a C-section and she is rushed off.
So what did they discover when they operated? A large baby, with her head in a sideways position, with her hand up by her face and the cord around her neck. Also my daughter had been pushing so effectively her head was well and truly jammed in the pelvis.
Next day after some strong words from my husband Dr TBM comes in to explain all the things which prevented the baby from being delivered. Then, glancing nervously at me, he goes on to apologise saying he was completely wrong to shout and she could not have done any more, he was really sorry.
Well we have a healthy baby. My daughter hemorraghed ( I know I've spelt that wrong) and lost a litre of blood but is recovering well.
But what is it with these guys? The arrogance and lack of compassion. What a way to treat a woman in labour. At least he did apologise. My husband is all understanding of him, but I say, burn the bastard!!
This all took place in a US military hospital and we are not US military so i felt constrained from speaking to the doc as I would have done in a Brit hospital. Nothing against the US Military, just this guy.