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ladybug
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Date: July 23, 2011 05:56PM
So, last Sun was the day when a cute little boy showed up at the door to invite my daughter XXX back to church after I had just talked to her SS teacher the night before and told him, "No, xxx will not be at church. I am not interested. We are not coming back to church. No, I don't want your phone number etc...
Had a FB post about religious figures that undermine parental authority in the name of religion. Didn't mention mormons nor was I very specific. However, one TBM FB friend read between the lines and actually apoligized for the behavior! She said when she was Primary pres and I sent a letter (which I forgot even doing)saying to stop contact she told everyone to respect my wishes. But, she says now xxx is into mutual so different leaders. Anyway,the last post was from me, that I still could not believe the arrogant and intrusive behavior of some people and that a letter was sent threatening a restraing order if anyone attempted to contact my minor chldren.
So, my adult niece tries to start up a chat with me the other day. i could tell she really wanted to know the whole story but I didn't bring it up. My son is babysitting for her kids tonight. I txt my son about when he would be home. He said nephew would call me. Waited-no caLL.Finally called him (nephew) and this was his plan (keeping in mind my DH died June 2010 and none of my TBM family has EVER offered to help me with the kids/house/errands NOTHING). Nephew thought they would just come get XXX(my daughter) after they got back from their outing tonight and she and my son (who is already there) can just stay the night and then go to church in the morning with them, because they are sure I'd like a break from the kids!!!
UHHHH, NOOO. I told him since I sent a letter threating legal action if anyone tried to contact my minor children it probably would send the wrong message (read sarcasm here).So, I pinned him down to a time they would bring son home (otherwise I'd be getting a call saying its midnight can he just stay blah, blah)and said Ok, see you tomorrow. Ah, yes..tomorrow. Family gathering for one of my (different) nephews birthdays. Could be interesting. At least it is in the home of the only other ex-mo resigned member of our family. I think if anything is said, I will just tell them that a birthday party is probably not the appropiate time for discussion.
GRRRRR...
Edited 2 time(s). Last edit at 07/23/2011 06:49PM by ladybug.