Posted by:
MJ
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Date: October 05, 2011 02:00PM
I appreciate supportive people, I just get really frustrated when they start talking in terms of what gay people experience. I understand how easy it is to do this, I have many deaf people in my extended family. I know what it is like to live with deaf people for a short time, to be in large crowds of deafies (culturally, I am allowed to use that term) for a long time, etc.. At a young age, I learned from hard experience that it was not my place to speak about their experiences. Now that I am older and know that I am gay, I know why. What you know of gay people's experiences and what I know about deaf people's experiences are only what we are told, an edited, condensed version that does not carry the same weight as actually living it. There can be very subtle nuances that are learned from a life of living with being deaf or being gay that someone that has not would never really understand.
I learned that I can speak in support of deafies without speaking for them or making claims about what their experiences as deaf people are.
NOW TO ANSWER THE QUESTION ABOUT LDS TEACHINGS ABOUT PRAYER FIXING GAYS:
You asked "Are you saying that the church commonly tells individual gay (non-bi) members that if they pray, God will make them attracted to one opposite sex individual for the purpose of procreation?" to be honest, I don't recall making any claims about what TSCC actually teaches in that thread, I only claimed that the profile told a story that was not at all outside the experiences of some gay men.
Now if you ask me do I think the LDS teaches or has taught that you can "pray the gay away", I would have to give a qualified answer.
In the past, TSCC did believe that gays could change, but did NOT believe that prayer alone was enough. Here is a three part video about what went on at BYU to fix gays.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pwUTVQ4mfNEhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bV-8BmFwGIc&feature=relatedhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UeMKmnMfNUo&feature=relatedThen, from what I can gather, there was a period where being gay was a sin in and of itself That getting married to the right woman would fix.
Now, TSCC is teaching that they don't know what causes a person to be gay (a failure of the prophet in my book). They do say that a person that has same sex attractions will find happiness and fulfillment by following the teachings of TSCC. That means that a gay man would have to be celibate or to have sex, he would have to marry a woman and have sex only with her. It is my understanding that TSCC "officially" no longer teaches that a getting married to a person of the opposite sex will fix gays.