There was some semi-good looking sister missionary that was in my district. We flirted, but nothing ever happened cause jeebus would be disappointed.
Why couldn't we have just been like normal kids and fucked for a while until we couldn't stand each other and moved on? That would have been a reasonable thing for me to do during that period in my life!
That's how I lost my virginity. He was set aside for his mission, insisted that he couldn't leave without having me.....Then took what he wanted.
Probably not what you meant by "lightening things up," but there you go. He was the majority of the reason I left. Confessed to the bishop right after he got done with me and said I seduced him. He went on his mission, I was chastised and vilified only 6 months after I was baptized -- told I couldn't be a member in good standing and go to the temple until I repented for being raped by a missionary.