Posted by:
AmIDarkNow?
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Date: November 16, 2011 12:55PM
My 17 yr old son is being accused of inappropriately touching his younger female cousin who lives in Utah while staying with them. His TBM cousin’s family have reported this in Utah. My son has multiple families that he will alternately stay with when he goes to Utah that also have younger cousins. He has not wanted to go to Utah for two years now but the ex has been forceful. All these families in Utah are TBM and I can assure you this has already destroyed my son’s reputation. My ex has not done anything to defend her son. Not one iota. He is guilty to her. There is no evidence whatsoever for this accusation.
He attends high school and the staff now knows of the accusation (made this past weekend) because my son talked to the counselor there because he fears he is going to be arrested and they have told him he has to do his school work from home till this issue is resolved. He has not been charged or convicted other than the court of family opinion. I can tell when my son is lying and for these accusations there are no cracks in his armor.
There are a host of other possible and more logical reasons this accusation could be attributed to but everyone seems to be convicting him automatically. I get the “why would a little girl make this up?” from the ex. Really? There can be lots of reasons of course and false accusations are made by kids all the time. This literally came out of the blue. And it seems more than obvious to me the girl complained when she was told that my son may be coming to visit not because he had ever touched her inappropriately, but because he and he male cousin are always telling her to “get out” because she always bugs them. I truly think they led her down an ugly road leading her to conclusions that are not her own.
It is completely outside of my son’s universe to do anything like what he has been accused of. In fact he has not even been told exactly what he has been accused of. He is scared to death and has no advocate but me.
I need to know how to protect him and his rights. I have no idea how to proceed. I need at least an initial consultation. His relationship with his mom has been going downhill and now this. His mother has become his enemy in practice and in not even entertaining for other answers. She has convicted him, has searched his room and has decided that since he has viewed porn and has made out with his 17yr old girlfriend on the couch (no sex) that he is obviously a sexual pervert. He is actually a good normal albeit lazy teenager.
Any legal types out there that can give me some advice I would appreciate it. I have told him to stop talking about it and to not say anything to anyone for any reason and have told him to sign nothing and he doesn’t have to unless he is sitting before the judge and even then he doesn’t have to. That much I have learned. Since this is coming from Utah and we live in Colorado I know I need representation in Utah if it comes to that.