Posted by:
Mia
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Date: November 21, 2011 11:53PM
First, I would like to thank everyone for their point of view on this topic. I read everything that was written and considered all of the advice. It is great to get so many points of view. Sometimes people say things that you may not have thought of. So thank you everyone.
Since the RS pres. has never talked to me EXCEPT at her place of work, I decided that she is perfectly ok with that. She personally has never been to my house or called me. Even though my phone # and address are no big secret. She has no problem invading my space while I am minding my own business and going about my shopping.
It was perfectly normal for me to be buying a turkey today. So I did. As usual she made a point of talking to me. Small talk. I asked her if she knew that I had VT on Saturday. She admitted that she did. I asked her why, since I had told her I didn't want them. She said the bishop had the final say (passed the buck) and that it was his decision. I then asked her if she had told him about our conversation. She said that she did. I told her that I didn't appreciate the VT showing up unannounced. Especially since they had my phone # and could have called me first. I told her this felt extremely disrespectful. I asked her how she would like it if Someone did that to her. Her response was that she wouldn't mind! I told her that is where her and I part ways. I DO mind. And that me and DH didn't appreciate it and expect them to respect our privacy and requests from now on.
She then asked me why my husband had a problem with it. (wow)
I told her he was so pissed he threatened to have his name removed from the records (true). She seemed quite shocked by that. I took advantage of that. Asked her if she wanted to be responsible for causing that.(:))She insisted that she never intended for that to happen. I said: I'm sure that's true. I want to make it perfectly clear I will never accept VT again, so please don't send them. When you talk to the bishop, you can tell him we don't want ANYONE bothering us. This means anyone from church. Missionaries,HT, VT, or anyone else that wants to make us a project!
She seemed very upset and embarrassed. I then wished her a Happy Thanks Giving, and left to pay for my Turkey.
It will be interesting to see what happens. I suspect a phone call from the bishop is the next event. What do you think?