Posted by:
motherwhoknows
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Date: November 27, 2011 06:30PM
From the "volunteer" food-preparer's perspective....
Jeeze! I'm glad I'm not taking meals to people anymore!
I probably didn't make enough food. I thought the meal was supposed to be for the sick person's family--not for all their visitors, too.
Very often, I'd make dinner, after a long day's work, and take it to a sick friend--who's perfectly able husband was sitting in front of the TV, and they were older, with no children to take care of. Often, I would clean up the kitchen for them. The husbands in our neighborhood make lots of money, and could easily just get restaurant take-out. The neighbors across the street were the worst for demanding meals. When I'd take dinner over there, their kitchen counter was overflowing with a variety of desserts, casseroles, friut, veggies, bread, etc. A while later, two carloads of grandchildren and children converged upon the house. At least everything got eaten. As a single mother, I was on a very strict budget, and I usually made the sick people a better dinner than we had--which I now deeply regret.
Our neighbors and the others ofter would REQUEST beef, and not chicken, because they had too many chicken casseroles already. My response was, "Well if you have that many casseroles, you don't need yet another." but I went ahead and gave them expensive roast beef, and swore that would be the last time.
We didn't receive meals, because we didn't request meals. My kids learned to cook, and walk to the grocery store. I think this taught us self-sufficienty and closeness as a family--rather than to depend on a church for favors.