Posted by:
Pil-Latté
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Date: December 09, 2011 11:49AM
I may have written about this before, but oh well.
I hear "you've changed" often enough to get me thinking about if I have actually changed or not.
Some parts of me are exactly the same as when I was a TBM. I fear the same things, I still enjoy the same hobbies, and I still have the same personality traits.
But after thinking about some changes I have made, aren't changes supposed to be good? I think life is a huge learning experience and taking each experience I've had and making changes to my life to better it- how can that be so harmful?
Maybe when someone changes (i.e. unbelieving) those who still believe feel threatened. So they see any change as negative. Mormonism keep people the same. They have the same beliefs from nursery through death. Its sad really.
So when someone says I've changed, I have in some ways- and that's just fine. Life is about change. I am still Heather, but I hope that with each year of freedom I can improve myself with change and make this life one HEll of a great ride.