Posted by:
Tyson Dunn
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Date: December 24, 2011 04:17PM
Because I couldn't get enough time off from work to join him, my boyfriend and I are spending the holidays separately with our respective families.
So today, darling bf and I were on the phone talking when he said, "My mother brought up your Mormonism again. She thinks that you're still highly influenced by Mormonism."
I did a double-take and asked how she figured that was so. He told me she felt that because, a few months ago, I told her that I had sent the Mormons a formal letter of resignation and kept their response, it meant that I was still under their influence!
Fortunately, darling bf was able to explain to her that I formally resigned because otherwise the church would have kept bugging me and that the church's letter sits in a binder on a shelf along with a bunch of other old letters I keep just in case I need them for legal reference or such.
Then, mother of darling bf says, "Well, I still think if he weren't gay, he'd still be a Mormon and have a Mormon wife and five children."
[facepalm]
I explained to darling bf that when I was a believer that I fully expected to live my life as a celibate homosexual and that that I was willing to toe the church's line, up until I stopped believing.
I very specifically did not come out to most people until after I left the church, in the hope that they wouldn't confound my real reason for leaving, viz. that the LDS Church is a fraudulent crock, with the one people might assume -- that "I just wanted to sin". I explained that I could have just as easily chosen to sin while still in the faith.
Fortunately, darling bf, whom I love very dearly, gets all that. Family of darling bf might take a little longer. :)
Tyson
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 12/24/2011 07:28PM by Tyson Dunn.