Posted by:
chipsnsalsa
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Date: January 05, 2012 07:45PM
I am the oldest of six kids, and the first to be branded an apostate. Three years later I am very proud to be an apostate, where at least I know I'm free from LDS. That being said it has made the two siblings directly under me ultra TBM, and sibling number four is just starting to form his own opinion.
He is turning eighteen in a couple of weeks and has contacted me with questions about moving out because he does not want to serve a mission. My parents are TBM zealots and they seem to have gotten worse since I was a teen. They are not allowing him to take the SAT because he should be focusing on a mission. Sadly this sounds like something they would do (I was not allowed to have a date to the prom unless he was taking the discussions). He does not want to go on a mission and my parents will undoubtedly kick him out on the spot once he expresses this.
He wants to move out in a month or two -- before graduation. I told him to please "fake it till he makes it" and at least live with my parents till graduation and until college starts if he can stomach it for a couple months. I also told him he was welcome to come home to my husband and I for breaks and such since he will most likely be unwelcome at home. We will be paying for his SAT (It's only $50)
I want to help him, but i don't want him to start off his adult life on the wrong foot. How can I best help him?
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 01/05/2012 08:46PM by chipsnsalsa.