Posted by:
imalive
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Date: January 29, 2012 12:16PM
I want to thank starvalley saint for their thread about bishops interviewing children:
http://exmormon.org/phorum/read.php?2,400361My own DD will be transitioning into the Young Women's program in a few months and I've been concerned about the idea of my bishop interviewing her alone behind a closed door. My own DS has told me that this man has done interviews with him, asking him if he masturbates (OMFG). Luckily, this kid has loads of self-esteem and says he only tells the bishop what he wants to hear. Thsi scared the hell out of me and reading that thread got me thinking big time.
I was at SM today. Before the meeting started, I asked my bishop if it was true that it was regular procedure to interview the Primary kids before they transitioned into the youth program. He said yes this was so. I then politely informed him that I wanted to be at the interview when he talks to DD about heading into YW's. What, will I be in the hallway? No siree, I'M GOING TO BE IN THE OFFICE WHILE THE INTERVIEW IS GOING ON. He looked at me wide eyed and said, "Uh, okay." I could tell he was mind blown at this. I thanked him. When he left, my DD asked what I had discussed and I told her. unexpectedly, she said, "Thank you, mom. I kinda felt nervous at the idea of not having someone there with me whenever any leader interviews me alone."
Thank you again, starvalleysaint for helping me deal with TSCC.
Edited 2 time(s). Last edit at 01/29/2012 12:29PM by imalive.