Posted by:
heftmyplates
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Date: February 09, 2012 01:47PM
The phrase "losing virginity" is the creation of fundamentalists who see sex as an evil except in the service of procreation. So they enlist terminology to create the desired pejoritive connotation.
When you first have sex, you are not really "losing" anything. You are actually "gaining" something, the experience of participating in the most pleasurable and meaningful of all human interactions.
Instead of ending a life of abstenance, you are starting a life of participation.
So instead of asking "when did you lose your virginity?, ask "when did you begin your sex life?"