Posted by:
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Date: February 19, 2012 01:05PM
I find it much easier to live well now compared with 7 years ago when I realized my life was not working and I had to take some drastic measures to alter my course.
Now, looking back, I realize that I am doing much better than I ever could have as a TBM. Why? I am now able to do the following +1,000 things some seemingly trivial, some expansive...
1. Enjoying the ritual, aroma, and flavor of making and drinking good coffee
2. Enjoying a leisurely Sunday morning, afternoon, and evening.
3. Experiencing no pressure to recruit or convert anyone.
4. Experiencing no guilt with regard to safe adult consentual sex.
5. Enjoying a nice champagne.
7. Using disposable income to go on a vacation of my choice without guilt.
8. Organizing my finances such that I have disposable income to spend on eating well including purchasing organic and local food.
9. Organizing gatherings with friends who are truly my friends.
10. Finding and contributing to charitable organizations which are transparent with respect to their use of funds.
11. Appreciating the arts without judgement regarding appropriateness of subject material.
Here is my dilemma:
Am I doing all of these things as a matter of revenge? I hope not, but I am a human after all, and subject to all kinds of self-delusion and hidden agendas.
I no longer communicate with my family and don't plan to ever again, so I know I'm not showing off or teaching a lesson or any such thing. Or am I? Am I proving something to myself then?
Or perhaps none of this matters and these thoughts are also a byproduct of my previous cult affiliation. (I was mormon by bith, not by choice)
Any thoughts?